Therapy was Full Podcast

We almost didnt air this episode, in this episode we discuss relationship rules and guidlines. Is it ok to tell you partner another person is attractive? What do you think?

This episode goes deeper than anything we’ve shared before. The crew sits down with Jamie Torres and cracks open the kind of stories most people bury forever — therapy gone wrong, church trauma, coverups, victim‑blaming, broken faith, and the pressure to look perfect on social media while your life is on fire behind the scenes. Jamie shares her journey through trigeminal neuralgia, religious betrayal, and rebuilding her relationship with God. Terrence and Dustin open up about mischaracterization, anger, forgiveness, and what happens when the people who were supposed to protect you end up breaking you. This is an unfiltered look at trauma, faith, accountability, and the power of telling the truth even when it costs you everything. If you’ve ever questioned your faith, fought to be honest, or felt punished for your transparency, this one hits home.

Military relationships aren't just about long-distance—they're about long-lasting impact. In this raw and revealing episode of Therapy Was Full, co-hosts Dustin Hayes and Terrence Davis are joined by Miss Laurie and Miss Ty to unpack what really happens when love, loyalty, and military trauma collide. From infidelity rumors to emotional shutdowns, from "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs—this isn't a relationship podcast, it's a survival manual for anyone who’s tried to love while at war with themselves.

What happens when the uniform comes off but the mission isn't over? In this episode of Therapy Was Full, we sit down with Clint Jordan, a 21-year Air Force veteran turned entrepreneur, to unpack the messy reality of military transition and the power of building community after service. Clint shares how he went from structured deployments to launching a military real estate network, opening a CrossFit gym, and founding the Veteran Business Alliance (VBA)—a hub for vets turning passion into purpose. But this episode isn’t just about business. It’s about what’s not talked about: the isolation, the awkward exits, the need for brotherhood in a world that suddenly speaks a different language.

In this powerful episode, Afghan-American actor and former U.S. Marine linguist Faheem Fazli joins the crew to share his remarkable story — from surviving war zones to standing on Hollywood sets. Faheem opens up about translating between the Marines and the Taliban, navigating tribal complexities in Afghanistan, and calling out the corruption that swallowed billions in U.S. aid. He talks cultural identity, CIA secrets, and the emotional toll of standing between two worlds. This isn’t your average immigrant story — it’s a wake-up call about loyalty, history, and what it means to serve two countries at once. He also drops insight into his upcoming book and film projects, leaving us with a reminder that storytelling can be its own form of service.  @FahimFazli 

In this episode of Therapy Was Full, Dustin Hayes is joined by co-host Sergio Gutierrez and guest Chris Park for a raw conversation about fatherhood, entrepreneurship, and leading by example in the middle of real-life chaos. Chris opens up about parenting after divorce, juggling business calls with school drop-offs, and trying to stay present while building a future. Sergio shares thoughts on legacy, art, and how not having kids gives him a unique perspective on the struggle. Together, they unpack what it means to be a “dirty hat dad” — someone who leads from the front, even when everything is falling apart behind them. From teaching kids about credit to questioning public school values, this one’s about fatherhood without the filters, business without the bulls***, and why failing in front of your kids might be the most powerful thing you can do.

Terrence Davis and Dustin Hayes get brutally honest about the chaos they grew up in — from abusive homes to generational trauma, fractured fatherhood, and surviving pain with silence.
Terrence opens up about being raised by a drug-addicted mother, a physically abusive grandmother, and a dad who showed up late — and empty-handed. Dustin shares how his father broke him physically and emotionally, and how that shaped his approach to relationships, leadership, and business.
From surviving addiction to navigating broken family dynamics and building businesses while battling inner chaos, this episode is a raw, layered journey through what it takes to break generational curses.
Trigger warning: abuse, addiction, generational trauma, and dark humor.
Key Themes:
The “Warrior in the Garden” paradox
Why chaos feels comfortable (even when it’s killing you)
Redefining leadership after trauma
The price of loyalty in toxic relationships
Building boundaries without building walls

In the very first episode of Therapy Was Full, co-hosts Dustin Hayes (Navy veteran & coffee shop owner) and Terrence Davis (Marine Corps veteran & real estate pro) kick off with real talk about the stories that shaped them — and the ones they never told anyone. From father wounds and broken systems to how they each learned to lead, parent, and heal without a map… this is the unfiltered start of something different.